the unbothered membership 

Have you ever wondered what it would feel like to finally stop overthinking every text, worrying about being "too much," or second-guessing how you should respond or what you should do in your relationships?

Or maybe you’re tired of being stuck in the same patterns—feeling drawn to people who can’t or won’t meet your emotional needs, while deep down, you’re craving a relationship that feels steady, safe, and fulfilling.

This is where building a Secure Attachment Style changes everything.

What Is a Secure Attachment Style?

In simple terms, having a secure attachment style means feeling confident and at peace in your relationships—whether they’re romantic, with friends, and even with yourself.

• You can express your true self without letting the fear of abandonment or rejection hold you back.
• You can share your feelings without worrying you’ll be "too much" or "push them away."
• You know how to handle your triggers calmly, without shutting down or exploding.
• You feel good about speaking up for yourself in your relationships, no longer feeling the need to over-give or over-compensate.

It’s about knowing that you’re enough—just as you are—and feeling safe in relationships because you’re not constantly chasing, doubting, or settling.

Why Does Secure Attachment Matter?

When you have a Secure Attachment Style, you stop wasting emotional energy on anxiety, fear, or second-guessing. Instead, you:

• Trust yourself, you know what boundary to set or how to communicate your needs without second guessing.
• Attract healthier relationships where you feel seen, heard, and valued - you are no longer attracted to emotionally unavailable partners.
• Handle confusing situations or disagreements with confidence, knowing that you will speak your truth without fear of abandonment getting in your way.
• Manage your own emotions, so your happiness doesn’t depend on someone else’s mood, actions, or approval.

This isn’t just about creating healthy relationships—it’s about building a life where you anchor into your authenticity and stand strong in who you are every single day.

Why This Membership?

The Unbothered Membership will fast track your transformation from anxious or insecure to having that secure foundation within yourself.

Through practical tools, live coaching sessions, and resources, I’ll guide you step-by-step to create the confidence, clarity, and peace you need to transform your relationships—and yourself.

Clients inside the membership are already making drastic up-levels in their relationships with others and themselves.

It’s not just possible for other people. It’s possible for you.

Frequently Asked Questions:

• Q: How is this different from therapy?

• A: While therapy is valuable, Unbothered provides specific, actionable tools for developing secure attachment, resources to hold you accountable, and ongoing guidance in-between our live group coaching calls.

  Q: I'm not in a relationship right now. Is this still for me?

• A: Absolutely! Developing secure attachment improves all your relationships - romantic, friendships, family, and most importantly, your relationship with yourself.

  Q: How much time do I need to commit?

• A: You can participate at your own pace, but I recommend setting aside at least 1 hour per week to spend time with the material inside the membership.