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A place to restore your confidence, reclaim your power, and reset your relationships
Get the tools to feel secure within yourself so that you stop trying prove your worth in order to be chosen
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The Unbothered Membership:
Your Path to Relationships that Never Leave You Doubting How They Feel About You
Have you ever wondered what it would feel like to finally stop overthinking every text, worrying about being "too much," or second-guessing how you should respond or what you should do in your relationships?
Or maybe you’re tired of being stuck in the same patterns—feeling drawn to people who can’t or won’t meet your emotional needs, while deep down, you’re craving a relationship that feels steady, safe, and fulfilling.
This is where building a Secure Attachment Style changes everything.
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What Is a Secure Attachment Style?
In simple terms, having a secure attachment style means feeling confident and at peace in your relationships—whether they’re romantic, with friends, and even with yourself.
- You can express your true self without letting the fear of abandonment or rejection hold you back.
- You can share your feelings without worrying you’ll be "too much" or "push them away."
- You know how to handle your triggers calmly, without shutting down or exploding.
- You feel good about speaking up for yourself in your relationships, no longer feeling the need to over-give or over-compensate.
It’s about knowing that you’re enough—just as you are—and feeling safe in relationships because you’re not constantly chasing, doubting, or settling.Â
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Sneak Peak Inside The Membership
Be Done with Second Guessing & Finally Trust Yourself to Create Healthy Relationships
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Unbothered is more than just a membership - it's your roadmap to being done with anxiety, worry, and fear so that you can create healthy relationships with ease.
Becoming "unbothered" doesn't mean you stop caring, it means you learn to care from a place of security so that you never betray yourself again!
What's Included in the Unbothered Membership

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What's Inside:
- Monthly Live Group Coaching Sessions: Get direct access to me, ask your specific questions, and learn how to apply secure attachment principles to your life & relationships
- Masterclass Vault: Exclusive access to the members-only library of video masterclasses on topics like overcoming the anxious-avoidant partner dance, building better boundaries, and healing after heartbreak.
- Daily Coaching Videos: Short videos to give you a theme to focus on for the day & build new insights
- Comprehensive Workbooks: 150+ pages of reading materials with exercises to reach new insights & create real change
- Guided Meditation Library: Go deeper into your healing energetically and somatically
- Journal Prompts: Self-reflective questions to hold yourself accountable on your healing journey
- 24/7 Access to Resources: All content is available on-demand, so you can learn at your own pace
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Jump in so you don't miss this masterclass - stop feeling stressed and start feeling secure
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1Â Break Up Healing: Grieve, Get Closure, & Move On
Learn the process for what it really takes to heal from a breakup so that you can move forward confidently & thrive in your next relationship
2 Relationship Rehab
Break the anxious-avoidant attachment style dance and get the tools to healthily navigate relationship dynamics, create understanding, & resolve conflicts with ease
3 Empowered Dating
Get the concrete skills to feel confident in the dating world, set boundaries, advocate for your needs, and navigate challenges with ease while discovering true compatibility, beyond surface-level chemistry.
4Â Simply Secure
Unlock my step by step framework to validate, soothe and love yourself. Instead of relying on people outside of you to feel secure, learn how to give these things to yourself, and give yourself emotional safety & security.
Frequently Asked Questions:
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Q: How is this different from therapy?
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A: While therapy is valuable, Unbothered provides specific, actionable tools for developing secure attachment, resources to hold you accountable, and ongoing guidance in-between our live group coaching calls.
Q: I'm not in a relationship right now. Is this still for me?
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A: Absolutely! Developing secure attachment improves all your relationships - romantic, friendships, family, and most importantly, your relationship with yourself.
Q: How much time do I need to commit?
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A: You can participate at your own pace, but I recommend setting aside at least 1 hour per week to spend time with the material inside the membership.
Hey there!
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I'm Erica and I've been where you might be right now.
For years, I struggled with anxiety and abandonment fear, always seeking validation and feeling at the mercy of others' actions.
But through dedicated work and the right guidance, I transformed my life and finally became secure within myself.
Now, as a relationship therapist & dating coach specializing in attachment styles, I've helped hundreds of clients make the same transformation.
And I'm here to be your accountability partner and guide you along your own journey.
I can't wait to meet you inside!